Signature Style Systems ~ Certified Personal Stylist, Image & Color Consultant, True Colour Expert

🔸Do you want to be able to show up for any event in your life feeling 100% like yourself? 🔸Are you sick of wondering why the outfits that look good on other people look or feel weird on you? 🔸Do you feel like you should already know how to create your own style? Like there was a cute girl outfit class that everyone else took but you didn’t know about? You know how most women are self-conscious about how they look? I was too! Now I have a process for discovering your Style DNA so you and I can look and feel like ourselves. Style DNA is my acronym and what this podcast is all about: 🔸D) your body’s DESIGN. This includes your silhouette, inherent color palette, and many other artistic characteristics that determine what looks best on you. (Physical form) 🔸(N) your NEEDS, based on your lifestyle, what life stage you are in, your roles, what industry you’re in, where you live geographically and climate-wise. (External elements) 🔸(A) your AESTHETIC. The vision of beauty that’s unique to you. What you like, and what you don’t like, and WHY. (Internal elements) Imagine being able to walk into a roomful of people, forget about what you are wearing, and just be who you are there to be. I believe when women are seen and valued for who they truly are, we will begin to see the transformation our world so desperately needs. My dream is universal flourishing. You not feeling self-conscious is the frosting; being kind to the planet is the sprinkles. Let’s connect! Get the wardrobe building jumpstart guide, The Wardrobe Pyramid: http://eepurl.com/hsNpHH. Learn more at my website: signaturestylesystems.com. Discover your Style DNA! Rebecca Mielke, Style Strategist Spokane WA

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Episodes

7 days ago

Ever asked yourself "what if what I like doesn't actually look good on me?"
 
If you're an ENFP, INFP, ENTP, or INTP, this question probably feels familiar. Your cognitive functions are creating doubt, but here's what you need to know: your genuine aesthetic preferences and what actually works for you align more than you think.
 
Understanding your cognitive functions helps you see why you doubt yourself and why that doubt might be misplaced.
 
Check out the FREE video masterclass: The Myers-Briggs Key to Signature Style.
To schedule The Aesthetic Mirror & Palette Party email hello@signaturestylesystems.com
 
Let's connect!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.

Wednesday Jan 28, 2026

I went to the mall last week. I was surprised to see the clothing stores are basically gone. I guess if I was shopping for my clothes at the mall, I wouldn't have been surprised.
In this week's episode, I share how my clothing spending changed last year, in light of the shifting retail landscape. I hear "I don't know where to shop" from people all the time and it makes strategic wardrobe building more necessary than ever.
I'm also sharing an important principle from a YouTube decluttering channel I've been watching.
When The Minimal Mom explained how she uses "favorites first" alongside categories and containers, I realized it is the exact formula I use in my wardrobe building system, The Wardrobe Pyramid.
Listen to the episode and learn how to edit your closet and build outfits you love the easy way!
Check out the FREE video masterclass: The Myers-Briggs Key to Signature Style.
Let's connect!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.

Wednesday Jan 14, 2026

My sister is ENTJ. I'm ENFJ. One letter different, right? Wrong. Our dominant cognitive functions are completely opposite—and it explains why we've butted heads our entire lives.
 
She makes decisions based on what's effective. I make decisions based on what gets everyone's needs met. Both of us care deeply about people. Both of us are managing things in the outer world. But we're using entirely different criteria.
 
This isn't about gender. It's not about Thinking versus Feeling. It's about understanding the judging polarities—and why 44% of us are an invisible minority in personality and style decisions.
 
Check out the FREE video masterclass: The Myers-Briggs Key to Signature Style.
Let's connect!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.

Wednesday Dec 17, 2025

Jamie Winship teaches that your identity is your gift to the world—no one else can give the gift you can in the truth of who you are.
 
For years, I diminished myself for a noble reason, making space for someone I loved. But in 2019, watching people crossing the street with their belongings in shopping carts, I was convicted that I could do more. I realized that helping people look like themselves with less effort and resource means they can devote more to solving the problems we face collectively.
 
In this episode, I explore why your personal identity is meant to be expressed, how hiding who you are keeps your contributions from being received, and why the world needs you to show up as who you actually are.
 
If you've been playing small or feel invisible despite having something meaningful to contribute, this episode will help you see your personal identity as the gift it truly is.
Check out the FREE video masterclass: The Myers-Briggs Key to Signature Style.
Let's connect!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.
 

Wednesday Dec 10, 2025

Jamie Winship teaches that only two things can move the human heart: suffering and beauty.
 
Most people think suffering is meaningless and beauty is superficial. But what if beauty isn't superficial at all? What if it's actually one of the most profound forces for transformation?
 
In this episode, I explore why beauty matters more than we've been taught to believe, how God used beauty to speak identity to me through felt goat ornaments, and why your style journey works best when it invites through beauty rather than obligates through rules.
 
If you've ever felt guilty about caring how you look, this episode will help you see beauty as the profound spiritual force it actually is.
 
Check out the FREE video masterclass: The Myers-Briggs Key to Signature Style.
Let's connect!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.

Wednesday Dec 03, 2025

Psychologist William Glasser taught that fun isn't frivolous—it's the genetic reward for learning.
When self-discovery feels enjoyable, you engage more deeply and retain what you learn. Most approaches to self-discovery require significant emotional labor, discipline, or financial investment.
But what if understanding your personality through cognitive functions gave you both profound insights AND practical application you'd actually look forward to?
In this episode, I share why the self-discovery path through personality profiling and style exploration is uniquely engaging, how it became my own map for personal growth, and why the homework is something you'll genuinely enjoy.
If you've been searching for a way to know yourself better that doesn't feel like grinding through difficult work, this episode is for you.
Check out the FREE video masterclass: The Myers-Briggs Key to Signature Style.
Let's connect!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.
 

Wednesday Nov 26, 2025

How many clothes do I need? If you're starting over or feel like your wardrobe isn't working, this question matters more than you think.
Knowing how many clothes you actually need is the most effective way to build a wardrobe that works for your real life. In this episode, I'm walking you through the strategic sequence for building from scratch: why the order matters, how to think about proportions, and the simple framework that takes the guesswork out of wardrobe planning.
Whether you're rebuilding after a major life change or just tired of a closet full of clothes that don't create outfits, this episode will give you clarity on what you actually need.
Download the FREE Body Design Basics Guide.
Let's connect!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Visit my website.
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.
 

Wednesday Nov 19, 2025

Have you noticed your style preferences shifting over the years?
Most people worry when their signature style starts to change, thinking it means they never had one to begin with. But here's what I've learned through both personal experience and working with clients: your signature style should evolve as you grow and mature as a person.
 
In this episode, I'm sharing five legitimate reasons your authentic style naturally shifts throughout your life, from personality development to energy changes to major life transitions. The key is knowing when evolution is authentic versus when you're chasing trends or other people's opinions.
 
Listen to learn when your signature style should change and when it shouldn't.
 
Check out the FREE video masterclass: The Myers-Briggs Key to Signature Style.
Let's connect!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
Looking for a fun group experience? Check out The Aesthetic Mirror!
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.

Wednesday Nov 12, 2025

What if the way you dress could change everything? Not because it makes you look better, but because it removes the friction that keeps you distracted and self-conscious.
 
In this episode, I'm challenging the idea that personal style is frivolous. When you understand your authentic style, you stop thinking about what you're wearing and start focusing on what actually matters: the people you're with, the work you're doing, the impact you want to make.
 
Listen to discover why personal style isn't a luxury, it's essential.
Check out the FREE video masterclass: The Myers-Briggs Key to Signature Style.
Let's connect!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
Looking for a fun group experience? Check out The Aesthetic Mirror!
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.

Wednesday Nov 05, 2025

What if discovering your personal style could start with something joyful instead of something stressful? In today's episode, I'm sharing the story of how I inverted the traditional style process—putting seeing beauty at the very beginning instead of starting with body type rules and expert formulas.
 
Last week in Episode 107, I shared what my mentor Carla Mathis taught me: what you love aesthetically is what looks like you. This week, I'm telling you how I took that wisdom and created The Aesthetic Mirror—a process that helps women discover their style by seeing beauty in what they're naturally drawn to.  
 
In this episode, you'll hear:
• The divine epiphany that led me to invert the process
• What happened when I tried this approach for the first time
• The story of a client who was so excited she told my daughter at the mall
• Why seeing beauty through group reflection is so powerful
• How The Aesthetic Mirror works and who it's for
Core insight: Most people think you need expert analysis before you can trust your style choices, but actually seeing beauty in your own aesthetic preferences is the anchor for authentic style.
Ready to experience this yourself? Learn how to gather your friends for a private Aesthetic Mirror party.
 
Let's connect!Download the free guide - Discover Your Style DNA: A Guide to Seasonal Energy & Personality Colors to start discovering your true colors today!
Want to learn more about how to discover your Style DNA? Start with The Congruence Code!
To suggest a podcast topic, send email to hello@signaturestylesystems.com.

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